Rev. Stephen A. Privett, S.J., President of the
University of San Francisco
Spring 2014 | St. Ignatius Church
Like those before me, I also congratulate you
graduates. You have earned our
admiration and praise; what you have accomplished is no small matter. I also thank those who believed in you and
supported you – your family, friends and mentors.
At this, my final commencement as president, in your name
and mine, I thank our staff and faculty for their wholehearted commitment to
your education. I ask faculty here on
the platform to stand for one last round of appreciative applause. I also
acknowledge our staff, who have given their time today to serve as marshals at
I ask you now to take one final quiz. You need no paper or pen; you will not be
graded. If you don’t know an answer, move on to the next question:
1. Name the three wealthiest people in the world
2. Name the last three Heisman Trophy winners
3. Name the three most recent recipients of the Academy
Award for best actress
4. Name the last three authors who received the Nobel
Prize for Literature
The next set of questions:
1. Name three teachers who engaged and/or inspired you
2. Name three friends who have helped you along the way
3. Name three people you enjoy spending time with
4. Name a few people who make you feel appreciated and
If the second set of questions was easier to answer, it’s
because the people who matter in our lives are not the ones with the most money
or celebrity status or the best credentials.
They are the ones who care. Sages
of every age and culture recognize that worldly success has shallow roots while
interpersonal bonds permeate through and through and perdure to the end. Our society has developed vast institutions
around things that are easy to count, not around things that matter most.
In 2005, Supreme Court Justice Sandra Day O’Connor
unexpectedly announced that she was stepping down from the nation’s highest
court to spend time with her husband, John, who had been diagnosed with
Alzheimer’s prior to his death in 2009.
At the nursing home, John fell in love with another woman, and Justice
O’Connor visited the couple often. She
admitted to being thrilled at sitting with them while they held hands together
on the porch swing – because, she said, it was a relief for her to see her
husband of 55 years so content, after having lost so much to dementia.
Psychologist Mary Piper in reflecting on Justice
O’Connor’s poignant and selfless love for her husband, observed that “young
love is all about wanting to be happy; old love is about wanting someone else
to be happy.”
I wish you all lives enriched by deep and satisfying
relationships – lives filled with people who care for you. Most of all, I wish
you “old love” at a young age.
Now, the University of San Francisco welcomes you to its
Alumni Association. You will be hearing from us.
Archive of Fr. Privett’s remarks from past Commencement Exercises: